Focusing on yourself is not selfish, make time for physical activity, add mood-enhancing foods to your diet, try meditation, write or draw in a mood diary, read a book, try to spend 2 hours in nature every week. One of the best ways to continue growing as a person is to focus on self-improvement and do more for yourself on a regular basis. This could mean taking steps to achieve a goal. Or just add some things to your day that make you feel good, such as reading more often or learning something new.
The process of ordering is the process of letting go of the parts of us (and our environment) that no longer serve us. By ordering, we create space for new experiences to occur and, with them, a new awareness and growth. The cleaning process can be liberating and allows us to see clearly what direction we want to take for our growth. Focus is that ability that allows you to direct your attention where you really want it to go, without being distracted by uncomfortable emotions, external stimuli or bad habits.
It's also a great way to focus on your goals and increase your feelings of gratitude and happiness.